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My missues doesn't realise that she is drawing my attention to look at someone ... someone who I've already seen from a good distance away and making an effort to avoid. When she points that person out I delay looking until she is out of sight and then I say "who?" "where?" and it ends that way ...
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My missues doesn't realise that she is drawing my attention to look at someone ... someone who I've already seen from a good distance away and making an effort to avoid. When she points that person out I delay looking until she is out of sight and then I say "who?" "where?" *and it ends that way *...
no it doesn't. it becomes very very annoying and irritating. i usually comment on people's fashion sense, never really comment on their looks because it's rude.
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Oh ofcourse I wouldnt entertain the idea of my husband staring around just as I wouldnt like some na mehram looking at me and being attentive to me. If I can protect my gaze, so can my husband. It should be both ways. Honestly but I wouldnt give the crap here that its not intentional, it very much is.
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But unfortunately for me the ones you point out have more skin on them than fashion and even if they were clothed more completely even then it does not make it alright for me to look at another woman to score her fashion sense, but I don't mind doing it on dummies - or on pictures when it suits a proper purpose for your deisgn ideas. Despite the fact we are in the car and hence in public and although we may be assessing the clothes of a person to society we will look like we are oggling at people together. Being discrete is a good English trait, being prudent with ones eyes is a good Islamic one.
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really? 
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I hope you are not quoting me out of context !!!
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I hope you are not quoting me out of context !!!
but i hardly point out the semi/half naked women. I usually ignore them.
and i don't care what others think, it's my job to get inspirations for my designs.
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right! what you all said. I think i would know the look a man would have when there is emotion/feeling in the eyes for another woman, that’s when the anger would come but there are beautiful women everywhere and i am not the jealous type, i would probably start a conversation with her and ask her where she buys her skincare products in a subtle way or whatever 
jealousy, especially of another woman that is just walking around minding her own business looking pretty is just something i ain’t going to do.
flirting with the imaginary man that i’m with is also when the yellow alert signal goes on in my head. still the woman’s a sister so i would not be b*tchy with her like some women get. and if mr. man is the one flirting, i would never blame the other woman, who’s in a committed relationship eh
admiring a person’s looks and lusting for her body/feeling for her are two different things.
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admiring a person's looks and lusting for her body/feeling for her are two different things.
Peace Nisha25
For most men the analogy of admiring the look of a woman compared to lusting for her is that of a space ship edging closer to a black hole. There the possibility of falling into the gravitational field is not only high, but once in getting back out is quite difficult.
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^psyah bhai do you really believe that? men have control and they are not weak minded creatures, falling in love with her just based on her looks......i'm pretty sure there are men here who would disagree. men have just as much control over themselves as women do. society looks down on a man lusting just as much as a woman lusting(she would be more penalized though)
women are not robots either like sweetif and inspiron agreed on, women will look and admire at a handsome man's looks too his looks were also made by God so no harm in looking
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^Nisha are you single by any chance? :D
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During my teen years, I started crying when my "only one special friend" checked out a girl front of me because I thought he loved me and would respect my presence...lol... According to him, he thought I was the sexiest and most beautiful girl in the world... I kinda felt hurt when he did that... After that, I don't really give a sh*t, if men are cool with checking out other women... lemme do the same to be fair :).... I honestly wouldnt like to check out men because my hubby would be my world.... Yet, I like to be fair.... :) ... We need to be equal, I dont wanna suffer the pain... You can look, I CAN LOOK TOO :) ...
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Erm.. Aren't we all supposed to lower our gaze..?
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why 
ok so i’m clueless on how men think about most things and your minds are a mystery to me, seriously it’s true:bummer:. but i know for a fact that all of you are different just like all women are different, when you start missing that hot, beautiful other woman is when your wife/gf/fiancee will worry i’m guessing or atleast i would start worrying. most men would miss a woman when they are in love with her or feel emotionally attached to her that can’t just happen with a look
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^psyah bhai do you really believe that? men have control and they are not weak minded creatures, falling in love with her just based on her looks......i'm pretty sure there are men here who would disagree. men have just as much control over themselves as women do. society looks down on a man lusting just as much as a woman lusting(she would be more penalized though)
women are not robots either like sweetif and inspiron agreed on, women will look and admire at a handsome man's looks too his looks were also made by God** so no harm in looking**
if someone doesn't wanna look at someone becuase of whatever reason, we should be fine with that.
i don't think it has anything to do with falling in love etc....when i find someone very attractive I stop looking at him not because of the fear of falling in love with him but because it's part of haya/shyness and haya is part of iman/faith.
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Erm.. Aren't we all supposed to lower our gaze..?
Not when ur husband is checking out other women :)...lol
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@nisha haha. Well you see, as long as it is done in humorous way..i don't think there is any harm in it. I count that as being play-ful. To add more, this doesn't mean that a husband should just oggle at her like a pervert. I am very committed individual and don't believe in decieving nor cheating at my spouse to be. I believe in humour as well as have fine ethical principal to balance out these kind of things. I would personally find it hilarious and funny though if my wife were to be this play-ful!. Just so let you know Nisha, i have tremendous amount of respect for you..for coming out as very open individual. Insha'allah you will find somebody awesome and committed.
) Btw..where do i find a girl like that???
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Why are women so insecure in the first place? They poke their noses everywhere.
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^Agree with Mr. Dopp. So much insecurity is not good. This is actually one of the big turn-off for me as a guy!.
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Insecurities are definitely a big NO NO, BEING open minded and understanding is healthy for a relationship... YEAH, CHECKING OUT A GIRL with intense posture is kinda harmful.