Re: When you are helpless (esp. in this country)
heheh- seriously, many wid my own hubby. He loves me - at least he says that, and I like to believe - hehe - however, when I am sick, he STAYS OUT. Just the other night I was complaining - that he kicked me out of the living room so he can watch TV loud - while I had a headache (that’s just one example - and then we become friends again - very common.)
mgt b he feeel lik u ver acting … n piyaar mai maree hoo ge …kick 
However, if HE is sick - he wants me to sit NEXT to him, so he can put his head on my lap, and I massage his head and all that. It’s TIME COMMITMENT even at home. I make some nice warm food, give him medicine on time, give him water for the umpteenth time, etc.
he is doing soo much for u tooo … tht mgt nt b visible to u 
But HE does not do the same for ME - although he loves me. So my issue is with time commitment.
Us women, also need our hubby’s time commitment, besides love!
he will b there for u …Azmaa ka dekh lainnnnn