Re: When will people realize that it’s rude…
Bilkul. I mean if they were closely related to you then you can at least understand why they are so ‘anxious’. But for outsiders to take such a keen interest in your life, and even to keep nagging you about something so personal is annoying to say the least. Because a lot of times, it’s quite easy to tell that all they want is just idle gossip, or to brag about how blessed they were etc. Good for you, but please don’t make others feel miserable.
That’s another pet peeve of mine, when people knows that someone is already stressed about something and you have to act smug…oh I am so blessed blah blah. Allah ka shukar karna chahiye, lakin kisi ke dil mein hasrat tou nahin paida karni chahiye na. Aur Allah ka shukar dil mein bhi kiya ja sakta hai, kisi dukhi shakhs ke samne yeh elaan karna zaroori hai ke mein bahut khush hoon. Waise that was totally off topic.