Re: When we talk about compatibility in a couple…
Notice that when you state your opinion you are thinking from the perspective of the more attractive partner. There are going to be subtle ways where you will have the upper hand. you will not realize those ways/things because the more attractive partner takes them for granted. So its good as long as you are the one to re-assure your partner that (s)he is desirable. But at the end of the day, your partner is dependent upon you and is at your mercy. People are not disconnected from the outside world in this day and age. Your partner is only desirable to one person (you), but you can be desired by an endless number of people. upsetting thought aint it if you are at the other end ?