When we get married.

We’re going to make sure that first and foremost, rules are set…compromises are made and understanding/love is there.

We’re going to make sure that we always have respect for each other, and there needs to be confrontation if we have anything to say.

We’re going to make sure we not only respect each other but our families too.

We’re going to make sure that we have a clear idea of how we would raise our children and how to handle financial issues.

We’re going to make sure there is stability in our life as well as our relationship before we bring kids into the world.

I’m sorta kinda sick of entering Life1. Beat me up for being a kid but alla youse need a good slap. :mad:

This is a thread for the non-married. How would you do things when you get married? Keeping in mind the balance you have to maintain in the relationship.

Alright, now I think I’m gonna go and study (I had to take the distraction out somewhere other than Cafe :snooty:). Buhbye :cheegum:

P.S - Where do you think relationships go wrong? How? Why? When?

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yes BUT…after marriag if you remind them all this they will say " raat gaee baat gaee :snooty:" :frowning:

and what will you do if understanding is not honored?

yee dil k mamley hain B.B. iss meen itnee likhat parhat kee zarorat nahee hotee

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Then I’d tell him to go sleep on the sofa! :mad:

Or kick him.

Actually, both.

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When I find him, after hes married him, I shall beat the bleep out of him for making me wait so long and then...

well, then, we shall go shopping for shoes every single day and when we travel, we shall skip and glitter will fall out of the sky.

Sweet...Actually if you really love him..i am sure you would do the opposite, . ;)

AND

I rest my case.

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funguy, hush it :grumpy:

Okay fine. But he broke the rules first! I didn’t write anything about not giving as good as you get.

Milly - wah wah, how clever are you (!)

You will not do any of this instead, you will start another thread on GS jis main shoher kee buriaan hoon gee (buriaaan x 10 actually ) :slight_smile:

PS: well if you live him, you will not do any of that …sachee main

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Acha, stop testing how much I will love someone I do not even know yet and gimme your answer. ¬¬

you took the words right out of my mouth

I told you .... seriously ..... understanding, YES ..... other promises NO. The more promises you make, more chances are to break promises.

Ask childish questions and ye shall recieve childish responses.

Howhays man luv, you know this. There is no such thing as love. Appreciate the hate, you never know when you will need it. :)

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Sveeeeeeeeeeeeeti, the other day you visited Parenting, today Life1…It could only mean one of 2 things:

  1. Meri bacchi baRee ho gaye hai :blush:
  2. You love me :sheen:

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milz, stop using that smilie.

niks, man why does it only have to be one? :wwnn: :smiley:

look i’m makhan lagaying the CM so I no get no warnys :blush:

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Make me.

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It creeps me out too sometimes. Smiling is wrong!

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back to the topic before it gets moved to Cafe and no1 will take me seriously. :frowning:

So relationships, where do they all go wrong? :hmmm:

lemme put this in the first post! energy saver

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:smack:

Ok both reasons Sveetie.

Now for your post, you know honey, in most marriages people don’t get a chance to discuss all of that prior to getting married and hope that they’ve been raised well enough or have enough common sense to carry out a marriage.

Also, I want to tell you that what you see on GS is a small crossection of our population. It looks like everyone has a problem here :hayaa:. However, if you look around you, yes, you do see more marriages failing today than every before but there are still many many many couples out there who would do anything to make their marriages work.

Where do relationships go wrong? Oh goodness, we can have 15 threads just for that :bummer:

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Sweefey? A Life1 thread? Are you okay? I mean, are you seriously okay?

:eek:

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i agree with decent 6. these relationships canot b discussed on a forum, esp not in an effort to make em better.