We’re going to make sure that first and foremost, rules are set…compromises are made and understanding/love is there.
We’re going to make sure that we always have respect for each other, and there needs to be confrontation if we have anything to say.
We’re going to make sure we not only respect each other but our families too.
We’re going to make sure that we have a clear idea of how we would raise our children and how to handle financial issues.
We’re going to make sure there is stability in our life as well as our relationship before we bring kids into the world.
I’m sorta kinda sick of entering Life1. Beat me up for being a kid but alla youse need a good slap.
This is a thread for the non-married. How would you do things when you get married? Keeping in mind the balance you have to maintain in the relationship.
Alright, now I think I’m gonna go and study (I had to take the distraction out somewhere other than Cafe ). Buhbye
P.S - Where do you think relationships go wrong? How? Why? When?
Now for your post, you know honey, in most marriages people don’t get a chance to discuss all of that prior to getting married and hope that they’ve been raised well enough or have enough common sense to carry out a marriage.
Also, I want to tell you that what you see on GS is a small crossection of our population. It looks like everyone has a problem here . However, if you look around you, yes, you do see more marriages failing today than every before but there are still many many many couples out there who would do anything to make their marriages work.
Where do relationships go wrong? Oh goodness, we can have 15 threads just for that