When to start planning or organising a wedding

aww atleast u got her to stop with all the “cooking” stuff…my mom rarely cooks.. she has a cook do all the regular cooking.. and wenever we hv guests she makes me cook :bummer: the only one who can make her stop is my dad by saying he wont pay for anything shes scheming.. he actually calls her planning..scheming.. lol..m rilli scared abt the accomodation of my guests too.. i hv got so many relatives who live out of town/abroad :bummer: n knowing my mom she’ll make me cook 4 them.. aaahhh.. i’ll make dem stay at some guest house :halo: