When to speak, and when to shut up!

tweety_pie · January 1, 2008, 9:28pm

Re: When to speak, and when to shut up!

So my problem is that i have no idea when to shut up and when to say anything (obviously :pagli: )

There are so many times that I wish i could’ve just verbally b*tch slapped someone for being the rotten person they are or at the very least defended myself..but i stayed quiet.

Then there are times when i hate that I opened my big mouth.
I mean how the heck am I supposed to know when to say what?

The only time I don’t regret staying quiet is with my in laws and husband. Warna, with freinds and acquaintances, i wish I’d had the chance to respond to their stupidassedness when i had the chance.

honestly, i’m not very quick thinking, it always takes me a while to get things, including responding to someone but by that time it’s too late and the moment is gone and if I bring it up then I am the one who’s wrong.

Whats worst are those snakes.. who like to give their own “sob story” to get you to sympathize and share your own story til afterwards ur like..WTF JUST HAPPEND!

omg i’m the same, i share ure frustration about this