when rishta comes...

[sweet_iez55]

Re: when rishta comes…

@Omer259

I agree with you and you have a valid point, but what I do not understand is why would anyone even think about making a decision about their son/daughter’s life and involve with people who they do not trust enough to have to demand education, salary proof. Let’s say the education and salary checks out, where do you draw the line, would you ask about proof of ever statement/claim they make. How can a relationship grow if there is lack of trust to begin with?. Instead of shooting in the dark and thinking everyone is out there to defraud you, isn’t it better to involve yourself with people you know. Sure, Frauds can happen there too, but so can they even after full background check. You can never predict anyone’s personality and how he/she will behave in the future.

trust develops with the passage of time, n specially in this rishta matter, one cannot have a blind trust on another, so if girl’s parents wanna see the degrees, residency docs., etc. it shows that they really care for their daughter’s future, n they don’t wanna be Swindled ( weather in pak or abroad) , n in the same way other party have got rights to ask aswell, wen it comes to the matter of one’s life n future, its all worth it, i see no harm in it personally