when rishta comes...

[Reha]

Re: when rishta comes…

@Omer259

Wow, never heard of that happening in my family. Almost seems like a business transaction to me. **In my opinion, amongst families that are educated and shareef, this does not happen as they meet other families through their connections and relatives/friends. This could probably be happening in lower class uneducated families where there is not enough trust and greed is definitely a factor. **Secondly, you do not need to see the educational degree to know how refined or educated a person is. The character of a person can be observed in a very brief meeting, without proof of any bank statements etc.

If I had a daughter and I was looking for a potential husband for her, my main criteria would be the education and character of the family. It doesn’t matter how rich the family is or their position ( Nawaz Sharif’s son would not be acceptable, lol), if the family does not seem respectable, then its no deal.

This is your first post and your first offense that incited my response. The bold part is what annoys people.

To be fair.

@Omer259

My views are limited and you are very broad minded?. Oh, come off it. I am so happy that I came back to Pakistan after I finished my studies, even though I got a job there. I really couldn’t take this drama.Your efforts at insulting me are also not that feeble. Your opinion to me is also unimportant and you have my pity. You are clueless about Pakistani culture and the sad thing is you do not realize it and think you know everything going on here.

Trust me, we’re very happy too. Its not like we dont have enough to worry about here. Thank you for the brief personal bio as well…we were all waiting anxiously to find out what you did after studies. Regardless, I dont think you understood my post.

Where did I say I know everything about Pakistani culture? In fact, I specifically said I dont…I only go for a month at a time…how would I know? Why is that even a concern? Im referring to rishta process HERE in the US…how things are done THERE is different and Ive stated that multiple times.