Reha
March 2, 2011, 5:29pm
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Re: when rishta comes…
You clearly have issues that I cannot provide any therapy for. People like you are angry at themselves for being put into two different cultures( West and Pakistan) that they do not understand. You cannot survive in Pakistan and you are treated as a 2nd class citizen in the US, so that’s where the anger comes from. As you do not live in Pakistan, you do not understand the ettiquettes of the rishta process here, and hence your stupid insistence on seeing docuemnts, degrees and paychecks as proof. Start meeting Pakistanis in real life, rather than just trying to make connections in an online forum. In fact, I welcome you to visit Pakistan, so we can teach you a thing or two about how Pakistani/Muslim society works. Watching a few bollywood movies does not make you a desi. The connection to Pakistani culture that you seek so badly can only be obtained by living in Pakstan, not online.
If you never immigrated to the west, then it is likely that your parents did. Ask your parents to help you understand the Pakistani culture, otherwise you will remain an unmarried ABCD your entire life.
Reading posts like these makes me grateful to my parents for everything they’ve done for me. Im so happy Im not you.
Im actually not angry at all…I found your delusions quite entertaining this morning.
Anyway, you do things your way and everyone else does them another way…to each their own!
Good luck! Im sure you will be fine.
Especially this one…you need to wake up and smell the bun kabab. This isnt the 1970s anymore. 
