@Omer259
God seriously. Ok imagine if you were the father of a daughter and you had gotten her married to someone who was in your social circle or through a friend. Then allah na karay the guy turns out to be uneducated but belongs to a rich family. Although when you asked people everyone told you he was educated. This could be because the people you asked we in their plan or had no idea because they thought he was, because he belonged to a rich family. Wouldn’t you regret your decision then? Just because people you know tell the rishta is good, doesn’t mean it is.
I know of an example where the couple are first cousins but the guy turned out to be a jerk and keeps asking the girls family for money. So even if you are close family it doesn’t guarantee whatever they tell you is true.