when rishta comes...

[Reha]

Re: when rishta comes…

@Omer259

The truth really hurts, doesn’t it??. I did not want to discuss your life situation but you forced me to. Now, regarding the marriage issue, no one is saying that you cannot do any background checks on potential mates, but there is a proper and decent way of doing it, as it is done in educated families all over Pakistan and that is discreetly and through your own sources. Not greedily and crudely as you suggested by asking for citizenship proof, salary and degrees. This is not a visa office you are dealing with for god’s sake. You immigrated to west, but still didn’t learn the proper etiquette of dealing with people?. No wonder, you still have the inferiority complex that you thought immigrating to the USA would solve.

By the way, it is spelled " Throne" not “Thrown”, but what do I know, I am just a person living in a small city in Pakistan.

What truth? That you’re not as refined as you want to be considered? You’re just another pretentious desi…what truth could you possible enlighten us with O Wise One???

What is greedy about residency status? How does that mean someone is greedy? And who says people just demand crudely? Maybe in your family people act crudely so thats all you’ve seen - which would explain your manners - but not elsewhere. Asking for residency status, education papers, etc is common practice among decent people that dont like being swindled by people pretending to be educated (read your posts above)…throwing your children away like they’re garbage is what the ignorant do when they have about 25 other kids to give away. And I guess in your case, it would be understandable.

I never immigrated to the West - another genius comment.

Coming to someone’s home, asking for their daughter and not telling them about yourself is badtameezi and people dont like badtameez families.

If you have issues with honesty, you need therapy. Not marriage.