The truth really hurts, doesn’t it??. I did not want to discuss your life situation but you forced me to. Now, regarding the marriage issue, no one is saying that you cannot do any background checks on potential mates, but there is a proper and decent way of doing it, as it is done in educated families all over Pakistan and that is discreetly and through your own sources. Not greedily and crudely as you suggested by asking for citizenship proof, salary and degrees. This is not a visa office you are dealing with for god’s sake. You immigrated to west, but still didn’t learn the proper etiquette of dealing with people?. No wonder, you still have the inferiority complex that you thought immigrating to the USA would solve.
By the way, it is spelled " Throne" not “Thrown”, but what do I know, I am just a person living in a small city in Pakistan.