Read above…Im not the one with the inferiority complex. I just answered you regarding how your social circle seems to consist of the cream of the crop/educated/shareef/blah blah blah (this is what I mean by parhay likhay jaahil) while everyone else who is asking for information is just a pile of poo/lowly/ignorant. Come ON! Grow up.
I dont consider myself superior to anyone…but when people like you come out of nowhere and look down on others for wanting to know more about a prospect…those are the answers you will get. I would never consider a family that was shady and had issues about honesty, frankly speaking. If they think Im supposed to get a revelation about them from somewhere when Ive never met them before, thats considered stupid. Who do they think they are and why do they think the whole world would know a single thing about them? Thats an over-inflated ego talking.
I didnt read all of your last post - just skimmed it because I can tell this mentality isnt worth spending too much time on. I think you said something about isolated communities, blah blah blah. I dont live in one. I live in a large community but that doesnt mean I know everyone here. Get real. Like I said, everyone seems to consider themselves educated, classy, maaaadran, shareef, heirs to some unknown thrown in Pakistan, etc. Does that mean they are?