when rishta comes...

[NomiCA]

Re: when rishta comes…

@Reha

The thing Ive noticed in educated families is honesty and the willingness to be as open as possible. So maybe the people you’re associating with dont care very much where their kids end up - hence no need to find out about prospective families. In more decent families, people try to keep the lines of communication open and do everything to reassure parents that their daughters will be well taken care of. This is called sharafat and class. They value their daughters too and try to understand. In **uneducated **families, they dont care much and do a very careless little question-answer (nowadays called brief and discreet) session…like giving away a stray pet…as long as the prospective owner looks like he is wearing clean clothes and shaved this morning…its a GO!

educated=decent/shareef ???