Re: when rishta comes…
you see…how much guys have to do to get a rishta??? 
P.S
(you as in generally…not addressed to any particular person)
now seriously… things can go on n on about wat u want investigate about a potential spouse…where do you draw the line??
and will you be willing to offer the same courtesy and ‘thoroughness’ of investigation to the other party?
Please do consider wat u are offering as well…before getting on a highhorse n rejecting everything and then later complaining about not being able to find a good rishta…
you need to make sure whether you are looking for an employee (in case of guy) / kaam wali maasi (in case of girl) or a person to marry and have a mutually respectful relation.