when potential rishtas come to visit

sali786 · February 22, 2009, 8:42pm

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^^^ Straight up is too busy planning for her wedding- ;) i guess thats y shes not responding- Hmmmmm

Straight_up · February 22, 2009, 9:39pm

Woh zamana gaya jab larkey aisay kehtey thay, now he’d say, "I was at a girl’s house for rishta but she seemed to be having too much fun online - I wonder how many boyfriends she has online! ??

Bonnie, I get too excited and tell you the main points, fazool baatein I forget :halo:

itna interest merey rishtey main, how nice

Ladies, the guy’s mom said she’s interested and invited my parents over for next weekend.

Episode II to be continued…

sali786 · February 22, 2009, 10:29pm

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yayyy -- next well b seeing u in the wedding forum alot :) LOL

Straight_up · February 22, 2009, 10:54pm

No ma'am you will not. :)

porcelain_doll · February 22, 2009, 11:23pm

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how i can pvt msg to milli ? if she reading contact me . i m new here but i want to talk to her

gulab_jamun · February 23, 2009, 12:39am

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^ you need 25 posts first. so just make some random posts until you get to 25 and then you'll be able to PM

sali786 · February 23, 2009, 12:54am

WHY WHY?? koi burai hain uunme ;) crooked nose? oily hair?? sookhi pants?? teri maang ;) hehe- stutters wen he talks -- hehe tell tell !!

(my extreme apologies - for saying that IF things work out!! LOL)

Sara516 · February 23, 2009, 12:56am

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^ what is sookhi pants praytell?

tweety_pie · February 23, 2009, 12:58am

well if ure 21 and u go to an english uni u must b in what 2nd or 3rd year, dentistry is a tough course, im a dental student myself, trust me the last thing u need ryt now is to get married, cos as you progress through your course ull have to choose between hubby or uni, u cnt do both since its a really challenging degree with ridiculous amounts of work 2 do!!

Aliyish · February 23, 2009, 1:04am

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well am gettin rishtas since i was 18 …

so it aint a big deal ladies

Mabrook · February 23, 2009, 1:04am

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yea i know this lady she got married in her last yr n then couldn't continue having 3 kids one after another.now she regrets.but it depends on how understanding ur partner n inlaws are

sali786 · February 23, 2009, 2:34am

Sookhi pants would b- Skinny jeans ;) the kinds which STICK TO YOU! lol for guys thats a NO NO!

Bonbonniere · February 23, 2009, 4:23am

This is not fazooooooool baaat!

I cant wait!!! Inshallah, Allah behtar kare.

Straight_up · February 23, 2009, 5:21pm

alvena · February 24, 2009, 11:34am

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congratulations straight up!...now give me those tips! hehe

thanks for the advice everyone! btw i plan to get married after my graduation which is in 2 years time so by the time i find a rishta get engaged get married etc etc it will be the right time so i dont think its toooo early right now!

anyway anyone else waiting for potential rishtas? i think we should put rishta meeting stories up here :)

saimasood · February 28, 2009, 6:06am

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u shud act urself, if they don't like u its their loss, b happy n proud of who n what u r. on the other hand talkin from experience paki families love bubbly girls some1 who is fun talkative sweet bit innocent v family orientated, personality wins over looks, however if u these things dnt cum naturally then dnt put it on, jus b who u r, im sure they'l love u anyways =)

alvena · February 28, 2009, 2:49pm

Thats very sweet of you.

By the way everyone the boy has siad yes to someone else already i found out this morning! so all that worrying for nothing....im a bit dissapointed though as i did really like the family....

i have heard its very difficult to get a rishta these days im very worried!

system · February 28, 2009, 3:25pm

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aww, don't worry.... u'll get ur MR.Right on rite time InshAllah.....
Allah know's whats better for you, it's just that u have to wait for te right time..

AnGeL_EyEs · February 28, 2009, 4:47pm

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Be yourself...to a certain extent. If being yourself is being obnoxious then of course you cant be that way lol.

Dont be fake. You want them to accept you for you...and if they dont like what they see then they can always leave.

Straight_up · February 28, 2009, 4:56pm

Worried about what? That you won't be able to find a guy to get married to? Do you really and truly believe that's what will happen?

You need to may be grow up a little more and look around - left, right, up and down and see what is going on nowadays in terms of social trends of marriages, i.e. what kind of people are getting married earlier vs. later, etc etc.

You also need to see who you are exactly and what is it that would be considered a realistic match for you. Trust me this is important.

If you look at friend A who got married at the age of 20 and you think she scored a nice guy and you want one just like him, then stop looking at Friend A right away. Look at yourself. Put yourself first.

p.s. no wonder men think women are desperate to get married nowadays.