When Muslim Men Can't Even...

say hello!!!

Urgh!

Okay, so many of you might remember that crush that I had…oh its been roughly 1-2 years already. So I was working today, and I had to visit some other office for work, and guess who is there?

Yep.

So, this guy has not been able to say hello since I asked him to go see a movie with me (to which his response was something like “This is going too far” :o )

So, I looked over at him and when I saw him - obviously I was like :o again.

And he just looked away!!!

I don’t get Pakistani muslim guys. Why are you people so averse to saying hello? I mean, why do guys think that if they say “hello” its being immoral or they’re giving a girl signals, waghera?

Its such an immature attitude. The guy made me feel so bad, that I turned my face too, and just went on with my work.

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Hello!!! :bravo:

There, happy now?

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If he had spoken to you or gone out with you, you’d only turn around and accuse him of being a hypocrite (being a Muslim and all).

I think the only way you PCG and a lot of guppies of like ilk are happy is when people put their morality aside and stoop down to your level.

P.S. Larrkiyon ko itna dil-phenk nahein hona chahiyey, it’s extremely ungraceful, maybe it’s not his morality and this is the reason he’s not giving you any attention or maybe you’re just plain unattractive.

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Dude let it go! :p

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Yeah .. seriously.

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How does any of this relates to him being Muslim and/or Pakistani...maybe he just doesn't want you...shooo.

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yea, maybe he just aint into you.

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I dont blame him...

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^LOL... well i think its the opposite i dont understand why muslim men want to shake your hand when they know ur muslim and even while they say salam, but yeah everyone has different issues

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I get that from lots of guys - especially if parents are around - they all clam up and look away.

Whether he's into me or not is not the issue. Saying hello is just good manners.

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hmmm depends.. in my family, we all shake each others hands, be it male or female… the elders usually give us “pyaar” on the head but all the young people shake hands.. and its considered rude if we dont..

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haha..pcg ur such a loser...

no girl asks a guy out...reeks of depravity..which is understandable for guys but not for girls..waters down your value..haha..loser..

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^ :bummer:

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dozakh mein mar, lussi.

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Modern Family hehehe.. if i would do that my parents/ guys parents would be like whats the need to shake hands, and would consider it bad

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PCG.. you are make urself a tamasha here.. the guy did a very appropiate thing.. if he doesn't want to keep any relationship to you then he is better of just avoiding you, so that he can control himself atleast.

Do you say hello to every other person you see on road? (even if you knw them)

and plz dont' drag muslims/pakistanis into this.. even if he was wrong doesn't make the whole population wrong..

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hmm na my family is pretty conservative actually. Nothing to do with being modern.. :slight_smile: B/w most of our parents trust us and know nothings going on.. its just a handshake

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sayonee..don't attach sexuality to everything...men don't get boners from handshakes anyways

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Are you being retarded, I mean what does that have to do with it ? Its just not appropriate for a girl and a guy her age to shake hands.. You can say Salam from standing at a distance is it necesarry to touch.. No

Its actually looks stupid saying Salamalikum and shaking hands.. a friend of mine had a guy say salam to her and shake her hand, she shook it and told him thats messed up when u say salam u dont shake hands with a girl..

But uH yeah whatever floats your boat people!!

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not all families are the same. There is a reason why it is prohibited to touch a non-mehram woman under THE LAW.