Yeah right unhain bahar dhoop main khara kar kay murgha bana do. I am sure Aahmed and PureSunlight are just kidding. If not then they are both moron or do not have any experience dealing with kids.
It appears, based on your above post, that you are not secure enough to have an opinion and support that opinion without resorting to name calling. I think children do that with one another. They are children. What is your excuse?
As far as the kids dancing and singing issue is concerned, I will say that if you stifle your children enough, you may just push them in the exact opposite direction. Then, you can sit there and blame the west and everything else but your parenting style.
If you want to empower the rock bands and other external influences by setting boundaries to the point where your child is not allowed access to or is allowed to engage in everyday, normal, part of growing up creativity then you are either:
- not spending enough time with your child
- very insecure about your parenting.