When Kids are good in something you don't Like

Yeah right unhain bahar dhoop main khara kar kay murgha bana do. I am sure Aahmed and PureSunlight are just kidding. If not then they both do not have any experience dealing with kids or raising kids.

common singers and actors make more money than most schooled persons, then what's the point in being schooled for 25/26 years and still earning less money than crazy rockstars? If the parents can allow her being a rockstar for fun and as a hobby then why can't they allow her to make this hobby her career in the future?

Has she heard the song

i wanna be a rockstar
girls will come easy and drugs will coem cheap
i'll stay skinny coz i just won't eat

i wanna be a rockstar

Re: When Kids are good in something you don’t Like

Icono :eek: never heard of that version and hopefully she hasn;t either.

hareem there is a huge difference between a hobby and a career. actually maybe hobby was a wrong term to use.

Re: When Kids are good in something you don't Like

The anchor at the FM radio i listen to in the morning while going to work is obsessed with this song, he plays it every 2/3 days

Oh God!!
...one of the reasons I dont let my kids see anything but pbs....I know they may think awful of me for doing this later...or maybe thank me

Not that i'm particularly a fan of that song or the band that sings it, I would like to add that if you look past the surface, you'd realize that song is actually tongue in cheek making fun of the "rockstar" lifestyle.

I love how this is taken out of context.

It appears, based on your above post, that you are not secure enough to have an opinion and support that opinion without resorting to name calling. I think children do that with one another. They are children. What is your excuse?

As far as the kids dancing and singing issue is concerned, I will say that if you stifle your children enough, you may just push them in the exact opposite direction. Then, you can sit there and blame the west and everything else but your parenting style.

If you want to empower the rock bands and other external influences by setting boundaries to the point where your child is not allowed access to or is allowed to engage in everyday, normal, part of growing up creativity then you are either:

  1. not spending enough time with your child
  2. very insecure about your parenting.

They are always attracted to music and dancing, especially in young age.
PS. barey honay ke baad agar un ke interests doosri taraf kara diye jaayein to woh itna nahi aatey music ki taraf, woh sirf fun ki had tak hi reh jaaye gaa.

good for u! inshAllah they will thank you for it later.

You know, i know English only little little