And those prove ‘cheating’ did occur?
My point was how come people KNOW about cheating?
Anyone who got divorced or did not want to marry or stayed married with a particular woman can spread the lies as ‘word of mouth’ right?
If you read above posts it seems
“everybody is doing it and everybody knows it” 
You just gave me another idea to put in “lies in Relationship” thread.
“It’s OK. I am being cheated too”