How do you think a husband would feel about it? What emotions would he go through?
We’ve heard a woman’s perspective ever so often but we hardly ever think of what the husband of a cheating wife who’s been caught would feel.
90% of the husbands would prolly be really depressed and will most likely get over it... but the remaining 10% WILL KILL!!!
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Well...I dnt know about married couples...but I had 2 friends and the guy found out one day that his girl had cheated on him...and it was very sad...but it was also different from when a girl finds out the man has been cheating.
He was broken, but ofcoz when he was telling me what had happened, I could see that he was holding back tears...but if it was a girl she would have been crying.
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Its a deal breaker for sure . But why a man need to be in love to begin with .
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^ Agree. Cheating is unacceptable whoever does it so men would feel devestated too, Niksik they’re humans too you know 
^Is this writing on the wall? Hmmm, should TLK be worried? 
LOL, kidding. You both make a cute couple.
I’m not a guy, but I imagine the emotions would be similar to that of a woman who feels betrayed. The ego would be hurt…a feeling of rejection…maybe comparing himself to the “other” guy…and wondering what he’s lacking or failed to provide.
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I know of two families - the wives were good friends, and yes you guessed it, one of the wives had an affair with the other's husband. The fallout was the bad woman's husband took her back for the sake of the kids and the other woman who was blameless, her husband - the bad husband left her.
Ugliness all around. As for how the good husband felt, I'm not sure, but credit goes to him for being forgiving and putting family above every thing else.
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^ Wow..thats sa.d..who did he leave his wife for , since the one he had an affair with was staying wiht her husband?
I dunno call me pessimistic but a woman would be more likely to take a cheating husband back....while the cheating wife would be kicked out/divorced whatever.
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I’m not sure why he left - it wasn’t to be with the other woman. I guess the relationship was so damaged that these two couldn’t reconcile. And they battled over custody for their only kid 
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It would ruin/shatter their ego.
I think men have more violent emotions? Dunno.
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It would give an excuse for the ten percent to go on an rampage!
Naah on one side it would destroy a man inside out... on the other it's the worse mistake a woman could do especially if the man was a real gentleman who hid a temper like an ordnance factory...
I can understand women cheating on ugly maggots who cheat on them... thats just fair game i suppose.
But many cases i know the fellows so didn't deserve it... many were simple but caring and gentle natured guys who were genuinely nice people and a few were like stars in thier own right.
I knew one fellow who was a noble character and his wife left him for a man with more cash... that was just too much for him... he being a veteran simply went berserk shot her... her lover all their fammily and then shot himself.
With guys like that why the hell do the women light such tinderboxes... i mean what possible reason could a cruel hearted woman have for leaving a jhonny depp lookalike for some rich stump from th dump.... and what would she expect if the dude goes haywire afterwards...
Men have hearts too you know... we just dont like being pushed.
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she screwed my life .. I will screw her .. :p ..
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^ Okay whatever floats your boat.
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I know someone who's wife cheated on him the 12 yrs they were married. The guy didn't divorce his wife because of kids. Anyway, the end to that marriage was pretty sad and heart breaking.
I think guys should let go of womein who cheat on them. Vice versa!
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Yeah letting go is hard when theres kids involved though… 
Anyhow i suppose letting go is the most prudent and bloodless way of sorting the mess out… 
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It is better then being killed.
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I couldn't agree more...
but i'll also admit i've derived some pleasure from it sometimes... perhaps i will burn in hell for it... but heck it may not have been the right thing to do but it sure felt right and one learns to live by ones gut feelings too.
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Just let go, break up tell er you are free....
In the same way that Abhishek did in Kabhi Alvida na Kehna