What's wrong with me?

[Jaanwar]

@bigdaddy

Life is tough in Pakistan. Just surviving is a big deal in between bomb blasts, robberies etc. Plus people have to run a million chores in between the time they have electricity turned on.

Men aren’t touchy feely like you women, where they would sit on the phone and sob over missing you daily. Learn to deal with it. Pick up a hobby like knitting or sowing or read a book or something instead of socializing with psycho feminists over the internet and jeopardizing your marriage.

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[Saima_khan]

Re: What's wrong with me?

you r lucky that he talks to you everyday chattin I'm engaged almost 4 years and I talked to my finace maybe 5/6 times in 4 yars and maybe 2/3 times I called him and 2/3 times he called and even tho we call each other after 4/5 months so what you think now? and I'm in long distance relationship too I'm In US and he's in pakistan and I know that he can offord long distance calls too so be happy with what you have.

[zara_bangash]

you are lucky that he talks to you every day....in one way or the other you are connected to him........i have been nikafied for four years .....we just talk once a year......i used to miss him badly ....sob over him......thats i think was really feeling insecured.....but once he sms me ...tell me i love u ....thats make my day..n no matter what happens...i just think that the end of the day hes mine ...n he loves me...........just come over the insecurity......n consider urself lucky......he must have so many things goin on his mind .....the visa ....the job etc etc.........mens are very complicatated creature ....just give him space.......n give him time to miss u....if u keep on pestering him...hell think ...oh my god whats wrong with this girl.......he must be having a tough day....n when he talks to u ....just ask him abt his day.....be nice to him.......just gain his trust .......n b caring......n share things with him........n b dere for him.....rather than takin out flaws in ur relation........at the end hell be running to share thing with u....coz hell know that u will understand.......n ull b dere ........dont just loose the charm of ur relationship.......once u r together.......ull b laughing over these things.....

p.s.......he is really mature n practical person.....we girls just love to live in fantasy world......where everything is perfect ........n dont worry he must be a shy one ....or mayb a person who doesnt express his feelings better.......n u have to help him with it......just give him chance to speak......n plzzz chat once a week.....u know all his day to day activities.....so i think there will b nothing left for him to say ......as everyday is the same.....so give him space n chat once a week......but u can him a surprise miss u sms.......once in a while.....n beleive me ....it will really bring a big smile on his face ........just dont cling on him......