lol..fish n chips zinda baad. It’s quite true that it doesn’t take years to learn these chores and I’m not in favour of “forcing” kids in any way but I wouldn’t blame my mom for forcing me to pay all my attention to the studies because you see, my mother was actually forced by her parents to leave her studies.
i try to make house chores more like fun and less like a duty for my sons…i guess it should work to balance out their lives, how easy would it be for their wives in future!
there was a survey condutec by west they asked women in england if they get a chance that there husbands work and they stay at home and take care of home will they like to do that or will still want to work and the amazing thing was more than around 70 percent women said that they will want to stay home take care of kids
there was a survey condutec by west they asked women in england if they get a chance that there husbands work and they stay at home and take care of home will they like to do that or will still want to work and the amazing thing was more than around 70 percent women said that they will want to stay home take care of kids
I swear as soon as I saw this guy's name below the topic, I was like let's see what weird thing he come up with today. And I was not disappointed.
Thank you sir, for giving us a demonstration of the type of *jihalat *we were talking about here.
in pakistan we have servants in most households but we still teach girls to cook sew clean ..as well as do well in education ..at the end of the day everyone has to manage a household to some extent...
would u rather ur mum went out to work or ran a house and have food on the table and clean bed for u to sleep in girls n boys..?
dont knock housewives..i now a lot of educated women who have sacrificed their careers for there children and husband and it has nothing to do with equality issues they do it out of love and to create balance and stability in thr home...
uneducated masses are the ones wr girls dream of things dont go t school get married and work...creating another batch of uneducated society...
there are some girls who plan thr wedding to the hilt but they know they will not be choosing the dulha :(
so choose things that are in their control...again to listen to parents and be respectful wen u want scream is tough....:)
Apparently this “Jihalat” is very common these days.
These days women ARE finding that marrying, staying home, nurturing children are much more attractive choices. Some professions do still need women participation.
Young mothers are turning their backs on high-powered careers to raise their children, a study has found.
Their mothers, or even grandmothers, lived through a time when women fought for full-time work and better pay.
But today’s generation is returning to the traditional values of home and family - and looking to men to be the breadwinners
Miss Odone condemned her feminist colleagues in media and politics as a ‘small, influential and unrepresentative coterie’ who assume that women must achieve self-realisation through work.
What women want: Cristina Odone says** mothers will be more fulfilled staying at home with their children than working**
**She added: 'We need to break the stranglehold that the small coterie of women, who work full-time and buy into the macho way of life, enjoy on our public life. **
'They have for years misrepresented real women who reject the masculine value system for one that rates caring above a career and interdependence above independence. 'Real women do not want to commit full-time to a job. The future belongs to the real woman, who points to a lifestyle embracing feminine values. Let’s hope this government, or the next, is brave enough to heed her call.
Cynthia Liu is precisely the kind of high achiever Yale wants: smart (1510 SAT), disciplined (4.0 grade point average), competitive (finalist in Texas oratory competition), musical (pianist), athletic (runner) and altruistic (hospital volunteer). And at the start of her sophomore year at Yale, Ms. Liu is full of ambition, planning to go to law school.
Emily Lechner, at home in North Potomac, Md., with her mother, Carol, is a student at Yale who plans to become a lawyer, but who says her career will take a back seat once she starts having children.
So will she join the long tradition of famous Ivy League graduates? Not likely. **By the time she is 30, this accomplished 19-year-old expects to be a stay-at-home mom. **
"My mother’s always told me you can’t be the best career woman and the best mother at the same time," Ms. Liu said matter-of-factly. “You always have to choose one over the other.”
At Yale and other top colleges, women are being groomed to take their place in an ever more diverse professional elite. It is almost taken for granted that, just as they make up half the students at these institutions, they will move into leadership roles on an equal basis with their male classmates.
There is just one problem with this scenario: many of these women say that is not what they want.
Many women at the nation’s most elite colleges say they have already decided that they will put aside their careers in favor of raising children.
There was a survey abt this in Holland as well, and guess what.
A lot of women would love to work less or even stay at home to raise their children, but they dont have the luxery to do that.
Comparing Western Women to Pakistani Women is like comparing Pakistani women to Afghan Women.
There are a lot of things that women in Pakistan just take for granted and which Afghan women don't have. Women in Pakistan don't get lashed if they don't weak the burka.
Similarly, Western women may want to stay at home now because older generation have already sealed their freedom. They know they have rights, that no one can take undue advantage of them. It's just like exams. You have to give it your 100% before you can enjoy the holidays.
Anyways, these kind of surverys carry no significance. 99% of the people in this world would like to stay at home and not work. But the world doesn't work like this.
In fact, what they actually said was that they would like to stay at home. U yourself added the luxurious thing. Women in Pakistan live in a prison, not luxury.
1) I hate men who force their women to stay at home and I hate men who force their women to go out and work, men should leave this on us women to decide for ourselves.
2) women who are homemakers if they make their own money there's a plus point for them, similarly working women who are able to balance out their family life, there's a plus point for them too.
3) Adults who completely rely upon their parents or spouses for everything should be totally ashamed of themselves.
A lot of women would love to work less or even stay at home to raise their children, but they dont have the luxery to do that.
I have to agree, I know of many women who are tired of juggling between home, family and career. Many of them want to relax, sit at home and take care of themselves and their families but they have worked so hard to reach that point in their career that it's very hard to let go.
I'm not saying that women should be forced to work or stay home, they should have an option and do what they desire. But let's face it, life would be better if we (women) had one less thing to worry about (work).
In fact, what they actually said was that they would like to stay at home. U yourself added the luxurious thing. Women in Pakistan live in a prison, not luxury.
Hmm, I don't think it's appropriate to say that they live in a prison. Yes it's true that women here in the west have more choices (generally speaking) as to whether they want to work or be a housewife, but i'm not too sure if women back home live in a "prison".
Hmm, I don't think it's appropriate to say that they live in a prison. Yes it's true that women here in the west have more choices (generally speaking) as to whether they want to work or be a housewife, but i'm not too sure if women back home live in a "prison".
Looks like you haven't had any exposure at all to the dark side of Pakistan...
