Whats up with the one-way gift giving?!?

Re: Whats up with the one-way gift giving?!?

why do some inlaws even expect jahaiz and gifts, what are you, a mall? :rolleyes: for my daughter it’ll be a trade off, you give me 5 goats, I give you my daughter.

On a serious note, I personally think it is wrong to put such a burden on a girls parent, that includes the girl herself. If you want lavish wedding with all the pretty clothes, best pay for it yourself.