but its wierd when they throw u a line with a kid in their arms
its hilarious
i dont know y i always burst into laughter whenever a guy says anything to me
i always say to my brother ke look at him wat hes doing and we both laugh out loud
i think its enough to make them feel bad :khikhi:
or sumtimes i go like awww such a cute baby look!!!
most of the times i ignore it but when they start to look straight into my eyes i just do anything possible to make them feel bad and rolling eyes or pointing at their kids is enough:cb:
so i dont make a big deal out of it cuz they aint gonna stop, u dont have to get ur self diabetes cuz of sum cheap freak in the mall hehe
Thank God I have never experienced anything creepy like married uncles flirting!
What does bother me though is staring aunties. Not randon aunties in the street, I mean like at weddings, dawats etc. Before marriage I thought maybe they stare because they are "checking the market" for their sons! But now I am married and I wish they would stop now at least. Maybe I need to pop out a couple of kids before they will stop. The funny thing is, even my husband says the same. He used to get really uncomfortable by aunties who would stare before he was married, and same story, now even though they know he is married now they still stare! I dont think they mean any harm though, some people just like to look and arent ashamed about it -like when you look them in the eye they wont even look away, or they'll look away but next time you look at them they are still staring!
I think just tell them! Uncle Gee arent you married/old enough to be my grandfather. If he laughs and says its just for fun, ask him if he would like for a man to talk to his wife/daughter/sister/mother like this. Usually turning the question on them like this makes them realize its wrong because they most usually will not like to imagine something like this for themselves. If its really bad and you cant tell them yourself, have your father/brother/uncle/someone talk to them and tell them to stop and how its so inappropriate
what about unmarried guys or uncles? partially you answered that it’s the nature… (exceptions apply:snooty: )
The reason I find the behaviour from married uncles is a bit more obscene, as present in my first post as well, because:
they sometimes, do it in front of their own wives
they have a responsibility of living their life with someone else … both have dedicated their lives for each other… someone pointed out above that “what’s the desperation?” … I say “don’t they have any respect for their wives?” …
I want to know if such ppl think it is perfectly alright for their wives to immitate them or they change their minds if the tables are turned over?
My concern was from the perspective of a married woman and some one was kind enough to ask if I was a girl [sorry to disappoint, I am not:p]
Who start flirting with other women (married or otherwise) even in front of their wives? Don't they have any respect for their wives other than keep uttering the lesson from Mutaa'la-e-Pakistan that "Respect is in the heart" ... baaqi sub khulaa khaataa hai...
And, on top of it, their wives are perfectly fine? errr.... in the name of "just joking"
How will these uncles feel if their wives start doing the same with other men? Or would they even feel anything?
PS: This is my first thread here ever... so please, be nice :ASA:
Ager yeh thread sirf 5 saal baad dobara maner-e-Aam pey aye, tu Bohat sey Logon key liye, jo aj is thread main ghareeb Unclon ko bora bhala keh rahey hain Sharmindagii ka baeis Ho ga.
Oh man these uncles are like so cheap. Whenever we go to a big desi party they stand by the buffet table and burp while oggling at young girls and their wives are like totally getting red in their faces. I'm like uncles don't you have some dignity or did it get eaten along with your naan and salan?
[sorry to disappoint, I am not:p]
