whats up with desi's and dua

[Fbi786]

Re: whats up with desi's and dua

i mean whenever i gave someone a dua (unintentionally), there are many who dont even bother to say thank you. whereas expecting them to give me dua in return is out of the question.

what makes them think that they deserve my duas!

not only this, but people in pakistan disrespect fakeer as if owning the money is a big thing. if they dont want to give those fakeer any of their money its okay, but why they disrespect them.

** they dont even think that those people might be closer to ALLAH SWT then they themselves!**

what makes them think that being rich or being brainier (which leaded them towards good education) actually is some quality they built themselves?

Very Nicely said ...

i actually agree with you on this.. esp when ppl dunt wna give something to the poor and then afterwards they bad mouth em .......... i dunt undersstand what makes them ... better that they can bad mouth these ppl .....

i think its just another sign of qiyaamat ... where the bad ppl in the community are known and the pious ppl are just wana be left alone and neglected ... where in actual fact it maybe tht cos of these pious ppls duas .. these ppl who neglect .. have some sort of izzat in the community...

[TLK]

Re: whats up with desi's and dua

i mean whenever i gave someone a dua (unintentionally), there are many who dont even bother to say thank you. whereas expecting them to give me dua in return is out of the question.

Maybe they know that your intentions were not to give Dua, and it happened unintentionally. :D

[zobia]

Re: whats up with desi’s and dua

@TofiBaba

Can you please define “dua” as you know of it?

Its a dua, not a nomination

itnay baray hoageya hain abhi tek dua ka pata nahi chala

acha kher i will define my definition prolly by tonight (busy day )

just to let you know everything is a derivative of something else. and prolly nomination is derived from dua.

[TofiBaba]

Re: whats up with desi’s and dua

@zobia

itnay baray hoageya hain abhi tek dua ka pata nahi chala

acha kher i will define my definition prolly by tonight (busy day )

just to let you know everything is a derivative of something else. and prolly nomination is derived from dua.

Mera question theek se parho, I didn’t ask you to define what I think of dua, I asked how YOU define dua.

[zobia]

Re: whats up with desi's and dua

Maybe they know that your intentions were not to give Dua, and it happened unintentionally. :D

well i dont make it for anyone or for everyone....but if i do it unintentionally then its always from heart. i cant just devalue them :D

[teggy]

Re: whats up with desi's and dua

:@: have i been in the list ever?

[zobia]

Re: whats up with desi’s and dua

@TofiBaba

Mera question theek se parho, I didn’t ask you to define what I think of dua, I asked how YOU define dua.

haan to may khe to rahi hoon i gonna write by tonight.

lemme go before mama really me …

[zobia]

Re: whats up with desi’s and dua

@teggy

have i been in the list ever?

y, u thinkg u are guilty

[teggy]

Re: whats up with desi's and dua

noooo :(
i was talkin more along the lines of 'receiving dua' list

[zobia]

Re: whats up with desi’s and dua

@teggy

noooo
i was talkin more along the lines of ‘receiving dua’ list

oooooo… i did give you countless dua, aint i?

i think …no i believe

[Khumar]

Re: whats up with desi's and dua

zobi to expect thanks for a dua is really really umm sad.

[teggy]

Re: whats up with desi’s and dua

seriously…

how can i be sure?

[chacha_Ghalib]

Re: whats up with desi’s and dua

wots up with desis opening threads to complain about other desi’s habits these days

[teggy]

Re: whats up with desi's and dua

wuzzup with desis criticizing desis for opening self-awareness threads:p

[sameenji]

Re: whats up with desi's and dua

Yaar dua main bohot takat hoti hai...kismat badal sakti...mera yaqeen hai...

[chacha_Ghalib]

Re: whats up with desi's and dua

wuzzup with desis criticizing desis for opening self-awareness threads:p

wots up with desis criticizing other desis for trying to stop a bad trend.

[TLK]

Re: whats up with desi's and dua

Joke aside, Zobia brought up a very good point. In general the attitude of gartitude is vanishing from our people, but specially amongst younger people its almost certain that they are not going to thank you for anything.

Now in case of Dua, either one did not realize, what he/she got from another muslim (zobia, in this case) or one is thinking that Dua from another msulim is what he/she deserved and no need to thank cause it was their right.

Or they just have ego big enough to acknowledge the niceness of the person who offered a dua for them

[zobia]

Re: whats up with desi’s and dua

@Khumar

zobi to expect thanks for a dua is really really umm sad.

ya ppl are hard stone

[zobia]

Re: whats up with desi’s and dua

@teggy

seriously…

how can i be sure?

then dont!

ps.

[zobia]

Re: whats up with desi’s and dua

@TLK

Joke aside, Zobia brought up a very good point. In general the attitude of gartitude is vanishing from our people, but specially amongst younger people its almost certain that they are not going to thank you for anything.

Now in case of Dua, either one did not realize, what he/she got from another muslim (zobia, in this case) or one is thinking that Dua from another msulim is what he/she deserved and no need to thank cause it was their right.

Or they just have ego big enough to acknowledge the niceness of the person who offered a dua for them

they could be naive!