Re: Whats the going rate for a husband nowadays?
yes its not islamic to ask for jahaiz. but the trouble is tali dono hathoon say bajti hai.selective islam doesnt work. if you want to have an islamic wedding marry an islamic guy, not go after the ones who arent, surely marrying with the consideration of islam is islamic too.
jahaiz is bad but so is spending oodles of money which most of the threads in fashion are all about. that isnt islamic either. so is another thing, most people give preference to money, does the guy earn this much or that. well if you are going to be materialistic tough luck expecting selflessness from others.