Whats the going rate for a husband nowadays?

someone tell me what in teh hell is the difference between “mayoun” and “mehndi” when BOTH events the bride dresses up, it’s in a hall, with singing and dancing and dholki and food… what is the distinction? Just seems liek a MAJOR waste of money/time…the same ppl who complain about giving jahez can be considered just being selfish and stingy b/ they rather all the money be spent on them (the zillions of events) rather than on gifts.

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