oh and about the jahez/baree issue...since we alllll agree that its a menace..why not do something about it.... the best gift i got from my inlaws..was respect and my husband..those two things bring the two families together! not how many clothes i got or how much gold i got....
Great point. The best thing you can get from your in-laws is respect. Everything else is irrelevant. Baree and Jehez just give rise to bitterness and unnecessary expectations between the families.....