what's our ultimate goal in life?

i’m not talking from an islamic point of view

is the single life so bad for a woman or a man?

does our goal have to be marriage, the 2 and a half children, white picket fenced house all combined to make the perfect life? if that’s the case then what do we do with all those women/men that are widowed/widowers,divorced,separated…?

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my goal is find myself a sugar mama and live off her money. inshallah. hopefully my prayers will be answered since it's a blessed and sacred month.

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how is one going to achive a 'half' a child .. then i shall tell ..

to be married is the natural way .. the safe way and the respectable way to live with men/women...

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half being a baby :p

is sex is really that important in life, being single doesn't mean we're having wild orgies

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I thought you WERE married already. Don't worry....you can take on wife #2...and she can be your suga mama.

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look ..the sex as we know it ..has been portrayed as a bad thing ...an option misused ... something to time passs about .. but in actual fact .. its something big and important .. its something / an action which the Almighty chose as a 'method' to spread / increase humanity ..i mean had there been no concept of sex ..u n i wudnt b ere .. ofcorse eliminating the arrival of Prophet Isa AS ..as that was a divine miracle that needed showing to the world at the time ..

so sex does have a big role ...in life

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rite now my ultimate goal is to get into a good college an have a good job;D.. and i think being a single is the best time of life but at some point you need someone to make your life more complete:)

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I'm not married yet... but I betrothed myself to Shehnaz Sheikh when I was about 7 yrs old if that counts.

yeah, polygamy does make a lot of business sense. if you marry a working woman, your expenses won't double and whatever she makes will probably fall straight to the bottom line... result? free cash flow.

now imagine having FOUR wives all of who work. the free cash flow would be just insane. you'd be super rich in no time. sounds like polygamy is a far higher return business than most others out there.

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What should we do with all the people who are widowed/widowers/divorced? Sadly, they are outcasts. They are a blemish upon the community and world for that matter. We must purge our society........by exterminating them. ****Or we could let them decide for themselves as individuals what is right for them.........cuz not many people like being pitied. And if they indicate their needs and concerns, it's kind of one to support them.

Have the people who are single for whatever reason (divorce, death of spouse, haven't found the right person, don't feel like getting married)...........stopped living? Has life become meaningless for them....where they have nothing at all to be happy about, to be grateful for, or to look forward to? Have the people who don't have kids for whatever reason stopped living?

Marriage and having children are among the goals that one might have in life. It's not the be-all or end-all to life in my opinion. One can still be miserable in their picket fenced house with their spouse and 2.5 children.

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I concur (not with betrothing myself to another female)...but more with Shehnaz Sheikh being quite the hottie in her time.

As far as the other stuff you said.......you, sir, have made the smattering of ardent polygamists here very happy. Now, you too, can be counted among the esteemed. And since I much prefer (and can better tolerate) your method of communication....I give you first place.

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a baby is already your "child" , what idiot came up with the concept that a baby is only half a child?

Re: what’s our ultimate goal in life?

apnay bacho ke shadi :insh::mash:

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somtimes marriages r jst a fkin disaster , so in tht case single life is quite better , u can live ur life without any tension, but if u get a loving partner , things work for u in ur married life thn married life is a better option ... single n married life have their own pros n cons ...

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i never saw marriage and kids as a goal.....it's quite disrespectful to say these relationships goals or targets.

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Dikhr

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don’t know which idiot came up with it but that’s usually the saying for a perfect life or the american dream,
A White Picket Fence, Two And A Half Kids And A Wife/husband. i guess some american idiot came up with it…:stuck_out_tongue:
:smiley:

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Our ultimate goal in life is to get laid. At least that is what the TV tells me.

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yeh, kids and marriage cos at end of day career not gonna give u any thing. All goals basically to help us get goal of having kids cos that is our job on this planet.

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Wohi tau na… how is a baby a “half” is beyond me.

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2.4 Children is a statistical phrase. Meaning most families in that country average 2 kids with some having a third on the way or do have 3 kids.