Who is we? if that includes your parents, they will never expressly say that they need their sons to take care of them.
Many will agree with your ideas, but it seems rather insensitive to me.
Janwar when so many boys leave parents alone to work n study abroad do u find it insensitive too?
do u guys marry for urselves or for ur parents?if ur answer is both then ask the girl does she wants to marry the family too?
u know personally i would love to live in joint family .i always wanted to.there were girls who used to say they wanna marry a guy whose mom has passed away.i used to think that was so cruel.but the fact is 2 months living with my in-laws made my cry to death.i felt like in a torture cell.n i'm not a person who cries over everything.
but if they were good n reasonable i would personally ask my husband"lets live with them"if in-laws stop making it too hard for dils i'm sure everyone loves love n care n some good advice.
i hav 2 sons.even though i know its not gonna be easy on me or my husband in old age i always think we'll separate them even b4 our dils hate us.sell our house n shift to a seniors building/ compound with security,housecleaning,laundary service n a fitness area.i'm not sure if it will work but might keep us on good terms rather than daily kit-kit.