what you conclude from her attitude?

Lifestyle Relationships
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On case come in notice, someone having long term relationship with a girl, and at the end he asked to his beloved, he wants to marry with her, in reply of that, her response was native, and she answer him, she wants relationship but not wife, she is not ready for that, and at the same time she claim she love him a lot, and without him she will die, there is not physical relationship between them. after all these claims she still is not willing to marry him.

After family pressure and waiting for her more than 2 years, this fallow decide to marry, and he just call to her beloved and inform his decision about marriage,

After Listening all, girl got angry, and reply to him.

“You can’t leave me, I love you a lot, I can’t survive without you”

and while talking she said to him , she will inform to girl family that.

“You are having affair with me from years, I will show them all evidences (pix, romantic email, greeting cards,) which we share in past.”

Further she warn him, for stopping his wedding, she will cross all limits, she will not make it easy for him.

In reply, boys again said to her, ok, if you don’t want me to marry someone else, than marry me, and again girl straight forward refuse for wedding.

Boy just stuck in this situation, what you conclude from her attitude?

Is it true love?

Selfishness?

Blackmailing?

or else do you think?

And what boy should do now?

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Re: what you conclude from her attitude?

buy her her medicines.

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Re: what you conclude from her attitude?

The boy?

It depends. Go along with his marriage and threaten his former girlfriend to out their past relationship to her parents if she talks.

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Re: what you conclude from her attitude?

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boy should talk to teh girl that he will come to his hoome to ask for her proposal...and will tell teh whole situation abt their relation to her parents..so she cannot blackmail him further..and he will be free to marry weh he wats..

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It is not a normal behavior......... She must be mentally sick or ............. she needs medicines.........

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She is just being stupid.

She won't do anything...because she has a lot to risk as well.

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Sick....

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she is hormonal.

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I suggest you change your # and forget about this psycho.

She doesn't want you to be happy because she likes your attention. She likes knowing you love her. And that's it. She does not love you back and will not marry you.

Move on quickly.

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FML where do you guys find these girls :(

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I can understand that maybe she wasn't ready for marriage when he had proposed.....BUT...IF she had any desire to marry him in the future, then she could have AT LEAST compromised on marrying the guy at a later point than what he had in mind...or agree to a long-tem engagement. However, she did not want to do that...and at the same time she won't let anyone else have him either. It's all about me, me, me. She might believe and claim that she loves him, but that isn't the case.

As for her threats....I doubt she'd go through with them. She risks humiliating herself and her family if she were to expose him and the details of their affair......and because of the double standards society has when it comes to affairs and the genders....it'll be worse for her. He needs to drop her and move on with his life. And if she does anything crazy, then maybe he needs to get in touch with her family because any misstep she takes will impact her them as well and they can try to prevent that.

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Very strange situation. It doesn’t really seem to add up.

Protect all the bunny rabbits in your house. :bummer:

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^yah I agree. Most girls want to be committed esp if they have been in a long term relationship. I wonder if she has some other issues going on.

If not, then she needs to let the guy go...there is no love in wanting to possess someone.

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Physical nahi hai tou relationship ko physical karo, phir dekho kitni dare chalti hai ye gari

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I conclude that this is a bunch of BS.

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shes gone cuckoo :(

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It's blackmailing

the boy should move on and let her do what she wants to do.

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...for Cocoa Puffs?

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It’s not easy for him to allow her, to do anything, her expose off about this relationship mean, he will lost his respect in family as well in community, he is known person, and I advice him to relocate some other places and now he is seriously thinking to relocate, negative point, if he step forward on this advice , he would lose his current job, and time being may be cut off from his family,

But plus point of this step, she would not have directly access to him, and he may again restart his normal life without such kind of error or mistakes, which he done in past, I believe this will work on him, as he is qualified, will get job easily in any place, and latter he may find someone, if he want to marry and after passing time everything will come on normal.