He’s not the first guy to have an affair. The idea of him having to relocate and turn his life upside-down for this girl is ridiculous; it’s an extreme reaction. Also, she risks sullying her rep and that of her family’s if she exposes the affair. It’ll be worse for her. She’s not the only one who’s crazy…where’s his common sense and self-respect? It’s hard to decide who I’m more turned off by here. Hmmm…I pick the guy…cuz at least the girl entertains me.
He's not the first guy to have an affair. The idea of him having to relocate and turn his life upside-down for this girl is ridiculous; it's an extreme reaction. Also, she risks sullying her rep and that of her family's if she exposes the affair. It'll be worse for her. She's not the only one who's crazy....where's his common sense and self-respect? It's hard to decide who I'm more turned off by here. Hmmm...I pick the guy....cuz at least the girl entertains me.
Thanks for comment, I do agree its extreme step, to take turn in life, and it’s not always easy, but what could be other way? Which may keep her quiet or calm, I know it’s not happened first time, but normally girls are concerned about their future and keep quiet, never expose their past, if they lost or affair unsuccessful , so they don’t spoil themselves in eyes of their families.
But her case seem different , she don’t care anyone, when she is not willing to marry with such person, With whom she loves and with him from years, it seem , she is not worry about marriage or her goodwill.
Like suicider, not let him alive, not alive herself.
Stay in same town, face each other almost every day, always afraid about her attitude, mind just click, when she will expose their relation, morning tension, tension at work place, evening tension.
In these circumstances you suggest please, what he should do other then this option?
Does she really not have ANYTHING to loose???? Must be something no??? Not even her parents or family knwing???? He must be able to use something against her also???
Ohh Ohh I knw how about going to her family without her knwing and telling them that they have been seeing each other with intention on his side of wanting to get married, but that she has turned him down and wont let him move on either. See what they say on the matter of their daughter being so cruel to him.
^It's pathetic that the guy is this scared of her. What about contacting her family? Maybe they can talk some sense into her.
I think he is not scared, he is worried about his goodwill, your advice clik, he may try on your advice, but it will not right way to talk her family by himself, I think he should first take someone in confidence, from his own family member, either mother or sister, and put whole scenario front of her, and let her talk first to girl directly, if it will not work, then let’s go ahead and speak to her mother, and wait for her response, but involving families in such issue, means it will be open debate from both side , other people may also involve.
reading posts in this thread have made me realize how once upon a time redvelvet and cdg used to be sweet girls, and now they are sarcastic lil brats and need to be banned asap. :O
Oh cmon Riz is he going to hide from her for the rest of his life? Isnt he going to come back to town to meet his family? What if the girl doesnt do anything right now but later tells his wife about their affair? bigger mess..I feel bad about the guy's future wife..who wouldnt know anything about this guy who wants to save his repo huh...sick!
A guy cant be that stupid..if he really wants to marry her then he can formally go to her parents..but he is afraid that if he goes, everyone will find out..he is more worried about his repo then his so called love-mind u he doesnt love her either..I highly doubt that the case about her refusing to marry is true..maybe he is just seeking advice on how to dump her without letting anyone know and then posing as the nice guy by saying she is the one to refuse..
Oh cmon Riz is he going to hide from her for the rest of his life? Isnt he going to come back to town to meet his family? What if the girl doesnt do anything right now but later tells his wife about their affair? bigger mess..I feel bad about the guy's future wife..who wouldnt know anything about this guy who wants to save his repo huh...sick!
A guy cant be that stupid..if he really wants to marry her then he can formally go to her parents..but he is afraid that if he goes, everyone will find out..he is more worried about his repo then his so called love-mind u he doesnt love her either..I highly doubt that the case about her refusing to marry is true..maybe he is just seeking advice on how to dump her without letting anyone know and then posing as the nice guy by saying she is the one to refuse..
Thanks for comment sahr, I think he is sincere, purpose a girl, wait for her more than 2 year since 2009, willing to send father and mother to her family, do you think it’s not love, he wants to dump her, I think he is not dumping, and there is other way to dump.
“Woo Nahi Maan Rahi Shadi Kay Liyay” Wait a minute; is it possible due to any unseen physical disability which may stop her for not marrying?
If he loves her so much then y is he ready to move to another city and get married there..y doesnt he take his parents to her house formally asking for her rishta(without letting her know)-that would solve ALOT of problems..her parents would ask her themselves as to y is she refusing..if she agrees well and good..if not then she wont b able to blackmail him anyhow..even his repo wont b affected if he formally takes rishta to her house..goodluck!
Turn up at her house in front of her family, swear his undying love with lots of fake blood on his body and a wild crazy look. She'll probly fall right back in love with him but at least her family will give someone plenty of chittar :D
Haha . . . very funny Mad Hatter bahi, if this kind of drama work, I believe on one in world lose his/her love.
One boy ask to his girl friend, if she will not marry, he will eat NILA THOTHA kind of chemical cum poison), and person may died on spot, after eating it,
In reply of this, and Instead of stopping him or crying to stop this committed suicide attempt , she said if you have shortage of money to buy it, I can provide you, so please go ahead.
He is avoiding to expose himself, and you are giving advice him, to open up front of all , with MAJNU STYAL, It could be vice versa, may be her family call police after this drama, and in real, big and long Chittar (PANJA) would ready for him in police station.
. . . very funny Mad Hatter bahi, if this kind of drama work, I believe on one in world lose his/her love.