trust me that was the best thing that happened to me, cuz that gave me a reason for not being hooked up with one of my cousins which my amma wanted me to do 
secondly i never had to go to those extended family events
trust me that was the best thing that happened to me, cuz that gave me a reason for not being hooked up with one of my cousins which my amma wanted me to do secondly i never had to go to those extended family events