You were not a virgin and your gonna get a arranged marriage? Would you let that person know? Or lie, After all how are they gonna find out?
normally YES.
OR
do it pakistani way, tell him it was bike riding accident.
But hold it till you guys do it.
And if he ask how do you know all those moves, say "tum bhi kuch kam nahee ho"
If he say why so lose, you just get angry and stop talking to him.
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whatever you do, don't tell them.
If the arranged marriage doesnt go ahead they have lots of ammunition to use when you try and get married elsewhere.
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oh and try to keep your “bike” in the loop by telling hubby “he is just a friend” “he is gud person”
I so agree with chicks here, we men have spoiled you women. Why we let you get away with such deception 
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ohh coz you all *need *us!
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what we need is kick deceptive ones out of our life for gud.
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well unless you guys have a open mind, then you wont get deceptive women, but if your narrow minded and thick then you will get them
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Now women breaking well accepted rules and going at it is guys fault?
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It's not deception. It's protection. :)
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I would like to know a guy's perspective..... So you're not a virgin and your wife asks you if you are, what do you reply to that?
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She would know before becoming the wife.
I know it's easier for a man to 'fess up than for a woman. That's our culture to you.
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I would like to know a guy's perspective..... So you're not a virgin and your wife asks you if you are, what do you reply to that?
TRUTH!!!!!!!
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A woman will accept a mans past better than a Man, Thats why women have to lie about it, If a woman says shes not a virgin the guy wud go hav a lil tantrum and break off the whole rishta, The woman wud swollow her pride and accept it no matter if it hurt her. Simple.
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its always better to say it ahead of time, cuz the worse thats gonna happen is that the rishta wont go thru, but Allah na karey shaadi key baad pata chalega to it will be much worse.
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if i wasn't a virgin i wld've come out clean on that part why start your new life on a lie ...
btw i love the bike joke
its always better to say it ahead of time, cuz the worse thats gonna happen is that the rishta wont go thru, but Allah na karey shaadi key baad pata chalega to it will be much worse.
Yep it will!
if i wasn't a virgin i wld've come out clean on that part why start your new life on a lie ...
btw i love the bike joke
Exactly, i cant imagine lying abt sumthing like that, and i pitty the girls that do, my friend is getting married soon and she's slept with loads of guys and shes told her hubby to be shes only slept with 1 (and this is a love marriage) Its really bad.
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I dont get why girls jus cant keep their legs SHUT! Its not hard for God sakes! Your gonna be getting it for the rest of you lives when you hit lets say 19+, Jus relax and wait!
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I think you should only tell the guy if you really REALLY trust him and care about him. Even if it is arranged. If you guys have deep, meaningful conversations beforehand then go ahead and tell him.
However, if you've only known each other for like a month then don't be stupid and tell that person! He's just going to run a million miles in the opposite direction.
again - tell him upfront, if he stays he is urs for life :k:
I will tell the girl immediately and then she can decide, i would rather tell her everything upfront and then let her decide whether she wants to go ahead, cuz i do have a past and had quiet a few bad habits as well 