Yeah I know the past becomes relevant. And i’m saying it shouldn’t because it’s the past. I’m not going to crucify a woman who dated a sleazebag who raped her one day. And quite frankly I wouldn’t want to get into details about her previous sex life.
When someone becomes part of your life you should focus on what type of person she is, not what she was. Desi approach is the stupidest approach.
I’d rather marry a non-virgin who has all the qualities you can ask for than a virgin who doesn’t. Which means, virginity is merely a non-issue to me.