If sumone you loved leaves u quietly and get back again to you after 1 yr with the word **SORRY, **
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When they come back after a year…I’d leave them quietly…and get back to them after…well…never. 
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hmmm dont know since i am not this all love thing at all.
on the other hand if i was then yeah probably would have only accepted the apology and would have made it clear that we cant be together now.
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i got much anger for defo, what if he wanna give some explanation....
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I dun know. I think it depends on the level of sincerity, theirs and mine. If I think they are sincere enough, I might give it a go.
It all depends on the strength of your feelings. If you really care about that person and you think the person cares about you too, then you might be able to bury the past and start anew.
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I dun know. I think it depends on the level of sincerity, theirs and mine. If I think they are sincere enough, I might give it a go.
It all depends on the strength of your feelings. If you really care about that person and you think the person cares about you too, then you might be able to bury the past and start anew.
This ^
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“I’d be like, HEY get your ***** ass back in the kitchen and make me some pie!”
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what RV said !
and just accept the apology and move on and tell him you have moved on and he does not fit into your life anymore and thats it ....no more re-establishing of contacts say bye bye
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If you really care about that person and you think the person cares about you too, then you might be able to bury the past and start anew.
How is that possible? How can that person still care about you when they left you in the first place....not for a month....but for a whole darn YEAR! What could they possibly say that could make up for all the unhappiness they caused you??
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Ignore them completely, they aren't worth it!
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"Hi, meet my hot Italian rich boyfriend, Roberto"
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How is that possible? How can that person still care about you when they left you in the first place....not for a month....but for a whole darn YEAR! What could they possibly say that could make up for all the unhappiness they caused you??
Maybe the guy/girl, after getting some more experience of the world realized their mistake. Countless scenarios. Anyways, notice I used **"IF YOU THINK". **If they want to get with you, they will probably tell you a story. It's up to you to believe in the story or not.
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How is that possible? How can that person still care about you when they left you in the first place....not for a month....but for a whole darn YEAR! What could they possibly say that could make up for all the unhappiness they caused you??
Things happen, there r diff circumstances/situations that make you do things which look totally wrong but they happen.
Edit: And only the person who is at the receiving end of this situation can truly decide where the guy stands? you dont have to say sorry 100 times in order to mean it. But if he is taking her for granted then by all means she needs to put her feet down and move on with her life.
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You accept their apology and move on. And besides there are very less people out there who leave you once then 'realize their mistake' and atleast have the courage to say 'sorry'. You should give them that and forgive him/her.
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I would close the door on them quietly and say "sorry"...as if life isnt complicated enough...now we need to decode peoples' behavior?
No thanks.
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what if he is saying " he remained quite for the past 1yr bcz his parents were not agreed with his choice, n he even didnt kept contact with his family for the same period of time untill n unless they agreed, n now when they have agreed, he is back with the sorry and realizing his mistake of keeping no connection, he said he didnt contacted cuz he couldnt gather gutz to say NO to me
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Do you really believe him? Where do you stand in your current life like having any relationship etc with someone? If you have already found a person who deserves you better than him, do not give him a chance (well thats obvious)... He who has left you once can leave you again... But if you truly believe his story and still have feelings for him, you can go for it again but then be prepared to get ditched again... I do not want to scare you but just keep this in mind... If you look at the other side of the story, may be he is saying the truth and he was really working with his family for you... His only mistake was that he did not keep in touch with you which I think can be forgiven if HE IS TRUE TO YOU (and no one can tell this but you)...
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You said, "if someone you loved..."
My arms and heart are always open for someone I love, no matter what they do. I dont believe on conditional love
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^ but a least he should promise not to leave her again :O
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^ but a least he should promise not to leave her again :O
If you need "promise" from someone for something, there is something wrong somewhere else.