Hello Friends, so here is a situation and tell me what would you do. What if you are a wife and your family was visiting. Your husband of 3-4 years is acting really rude by not talking to your family. HOw would you handle this situation???
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
i would ignore him..pretend he doesn't excist..then he'll feel how ur family feels..
maybe then he'll explain himself y he's acting like this..
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
there must be some reasons if hes not talking to them , try to find em out .
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
mahru i am niether married nor a woman but i can understand how difficult such a situation can be...she should talk to her husband about it and try to explain it to him that the parents are there only some days atleast act better....BTW is he getting rude because of parents? I mean does he not like the woman's parents? If that is the case then it wud be difficult convincing him...but i dunno if my suggestion helps
if u ask this question in Life and Relationships section of Gupshup u may get a lot of responses...
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
straighten him out real good.
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
Mahru, ask him why he's acting like this. Try talking to him to see what his problem is.
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
Multiply his existence by ZERO during your parents visit. However, let them know after they have arrived that something is bothering your husband at work and he is not acting wise. He also doesn't want anyone to talk to him about work. So please ignore him and have a good time while you are here. Please pray for him.
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
i dont think a person can go rude when others are kind to him. there must be some past things that can bother him and he can act this way. which I personaly dont like either.
if there is nothing in past or any lies he has listened about them to put him off. then he may be that kind of person who want to be stuck up when in laws around.
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
i think the latter is correct in his situation
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
how you treat his family?
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
Okay I tried my best to treat them just like my family. I call his mom and dad by ammi jee and daddy. Now, i never wanted go into such details to make me look like i am the best bahu out there but i tried my best. In the five years i helped my husband get 2 sisters married. WE completely paid for both weddings. In the mean time we were living in an apartment and did not want to buy a home because he had more responsibility on his shoulders as to get them married etc. And then i said to my hubby that we should send his parents for Hajj we did that in 2004 and after they returned i said now we can buy a home since his major responsibilities were dealt with. Now you tell me Mr. Skills have i done anything wrong?????? I always send them expensive gifts. Even my sister in laws children here we always give them gifts.
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
You have spoilt your in-laws to great extent. Shuroo din say hee DanDaa dainaa thaa naa.
This is turning out to be very mind boggling. I mean seems like you have done all (even more) than any average DIL would have done.
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
YES fUNGUY and now i am paying for it. The girs who keep them on their toes all the time is the way to go.
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
Yes mahru, disconnecting the phone so he cant recieve their calls is the biggest respect a bahu can offer 
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
well the phone calls had become a routine and especially when they are calling you 1-2 am in the morning is not funny especially if you have to go to university in the morning or work.
By the way, why am i explaining things to you, Mr. Astray. By that action, i showed no disrespect to anyone. I never was rude or mean to them.
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
have you ever explained to them that? TALK TO THEM! I am sure they are normal people and if you explain them how you feel they will understand. I think your biggest problem is communication
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
:D
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
Thikhi Jalebi - it took you this long to figure out that communication is the problem. What have i been saying for the last 2 days that he won't talk.
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
It's only been two days??? I thought it was daily routine!
Re: What would you doooooooooooooooo
2 days since i came onto gupshup............................I recently discovered gupshup