Re: What Would You Do?
I never said that I was sure that the other person wants the same thing. If I knew what the other person wanted in a situation like this (or any other), then I would just respect their wishes. But in ANY situation where I’m not sure, that’s when I treat others the way I’d want to be treated.
There isn’t a perfect answer to this. At the end of the day, if we don’t know for a fact whether or not the other person would want to know…then we need to do what we feel is the right decision in our own minds. And another factor I brought up in another thread…the threat of STD/HIV in cases like this. There is no way I can have this information & continue talking/hanging out w/ the innocent spouse & act like nothing is wrong.