Your friend is happily married for 8 years and has 3 kids. You discover that her husband is physically cheating with her colleague.
Will you tell her? Or will you mind ur own business?
I know that there have been similar threads b4, but with new members, i want to get a fresh perspective.
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I wouldn’t want to be a cause to break their marriage.
i would not want to disclose his secret.
i would remain silent.
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Approach the husband OR the colleague and hint him/her about your knowledge of his/her rendezvous.
Other choice is to remain silent.
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That's a tough one. What do you think the wife would do with the information?
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One of my friends, that incidentally isn't my friend anymore, did something similar and she was married too. I think after that incident I would leave it alone for the cheating party to learn and realize rather than try to talk them out of it.
She left me as her friend since I was trying to talk her out of it and even if there was cheating she is happily married. No judgment. Too many couples where there's cheating involved, for the desi ones divorcing is worse. Hey as long as theyre still married in society's eyes anything goes since it's all hush hush and divorce is a bigger sin. I'm so put off by what I've seen. For me faithfulness in marriage is paramount, from my side.
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what if his wife already knows what her husband is doing out there?
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That's a tough situation but I would probably hint to the hubby (if and when id ever see him) that ive seen something. But then again if I was in a situation where I was oblivious to my hubby cheating (god forbid) then I would want my best friend to tell me. Even if it causes problems.
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That's a tough one. What do you think the wife would do with the information?
One can't be sure, most likely divorce.
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That's a tough situation but I would probably hint to the hubby (if and when id ever see him) that ive seen something. But then again if I was in a situation where I was oblivious to my hubby cheating (god forbid) then I would want my best friend to tell me. Even if it causes problems.
If my husband was cheating I'd also want to know so for that reason I wouldn't keep quiet..
I'd tell the guy to own up to it himself but if he doesn't I'd say something or maybe write a letter..
What the wife wants to do later is down to her..
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Tell her. Come on bro, it's free drama.
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As a married woman, I would want ANYONE (friend or not) to tell me if they knew for a fact that my husband was cheating on me. And I like to treat others the way I would want to be treated in a similar situation. Thus I would definitely tell a friend of mine if I knew for a fact that his/her spouse was being unfaithful.
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^ This
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As a married woman, I would want ANYONE (friend or not) to tell me if they knew for a fact that my husband was cheating on me. And I like to treat others the way I would want to be treated in a similar situation. Thus I would definitely tell a friend of mine if I knew for a fact that his/her spouse was being unfaithful.
Don't you think that it's not the same thing! That is what you would like to know, and volunteering this information to someone who doesn't know?
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Now consider this.
Its a real life situation.
One of my friend discussed this with me and another friend. He has a close friend, whom he knows for a long time. Married with 3 kids, businessman, well respected family and status. He shows him his scan which were done for another medical reason. From the scan report it was obvious that he has a condition due to which he cannot have children.
Now this friend wanted to ask should he tell or not, citing the same reason, that if he was in position of this person, he would like to know.
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jo 'aag' lagii huii hai use bujhaanaa hamaare bas kii baat nahiiN...let it burn itself out! let the safe-house burn to the ground...apun ko kia TangRii aRaane kaa? :D
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If I were her I would want to know. In a really delicate case you can just write an anonymous letter, and reveal your evidence ( snapshot, or incident) through that.
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jo 'aag' lagii huii hai use bujhaanaa hamaare bas kii baat nahiiN...let it burn itself out! let the safe-house burn to the ground...apun ko kia TangRii aRaane kaa? :D
??what does that mean?
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do you has 4 vitness?
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I’m not even sure what this means. 
The point in my post was to treat others they way you’d want to be treated.
Why don’t you share you views on this? If a friend of yours knew for a fact that your wife was cheating on you, would you want that friend to share this information with you?
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From the scan report it was obvious that he has a condition due to which he cannot have children.
The man can't have biological children even through IVF? Or does the other friend know for a fact that the man's wife conceived all 3 children without any medical intervention?