what would you do?

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Re: what would you do?

@princessjojo

He does care. He wants at least the name associated- which means that he does care. Think with an open mind.
A title means a lot. It becomes a part of a person’s identity and it influences who that person associates with.

I agree with Jojo. We have a friend who married a Hindu girl who converted to Islam but is not really a practicing Muslim. Her parents are Hindus so when their kids were born, even though they are Muslim kids, the girl’s parents took them for the whole new baby pooja process by having the priest come to the house and perform the pooja in front of the fire.

This one smells like a similar case to me. I would take this as a trial from Allah swt. Ask the guy if he’s willing to become a practicing Muslim. If he’s reluctant to do so, then you would need to move on. It will be VERY TOUGH but that is your trial to see if you succeed. May Allah swt guide you. Ameen