Reha
October 23, 2010, 6:09pm
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Re: What would you do…?!
You know dudette, if I was a girl, I would not marry him. I said it somehwere that after forcing a love marriage on their mothers and getting an approval (especially when there was an initial resistance by his mother like in above case), guys go into a sudden guilt trip right after marriage and not only become submissive to their moms, but expect wife to do that to. This is where girls come back and say, oh before marriage he was so much in love with me and now he does not even care about me.
This is what happens, guilt trap.
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I am not the one in love SO my answer may not make much sense but i wouldnt go ahead with such a relationship**. Because for me marriage is not getting together of two people only (i.e the husband and the wife) but its about two families getting together and accepting each other in their lives.** So in such a case that wouldnt be possible. For my love, i would definately do my best to figure out why his mother doesnt like me and if possible have a heart to heart with her and clear out any misunderstanding there may be. If it doesnt even work out then, i wl have no option to backout. I wouldnt want any guy to leave his parents or family for me even if he was willing because if he can leave his family for me, i am sure later on he can leave me for somebody else too
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Thats the point here redrose…real life is much more difficult than a relationship. Once you’re married and real life hits you…it wont be so pretty because he will feel bad about defying his mother. He might expect you to be submissive as TLK said and try to ‘make it up to her’.