what would you do

Now, we all know how important money is to women in marriage/relationship. Ladies, what would you do if you get married to a man who losses his business/job due to some tragedy after a year of marriage (or relationship). He would bring in very little or no money for quite some time. Would you dump him and get another man or would you stay with him? be honest

Guys, what you think most women would do if you bring in little or no paper at all due to tragedy after some time into relationship?

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I would stay with him and I'm sure my paycheck will be enough for the both of us

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Most women will stay and unless the guy is total bum and lazy they try to work it out.

It is the responsibility of man to be the bread winner and take care of family no matter what he has to do legally. There should not be any shame in finding the job and earn halal living.

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She better dump me . Aur pareshaaniyan kum haan zindigani ma :p

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If my husband has the will to work and earn money, I'll stay with him for sure, even if it'll take him a year to find another job. People lose their jobs, it happens. I'll support him and pray for him.

I'd only leave him if he decides to never work again and wants to only sit around at the house.

LMAO!

Such a woman is a rare commodity indeed. There are very few who would infact stay in this day and age.

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i would support him through thick or thin....

shaadi koi mazaak nahi hoti, do zindagiyoun ki commitment hoti hai

lol, typical Nami respose :snooty:

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I would support him 101%." *Would you dump him and get another man or would you stay with him? be honest" .....*this statement made me feel like as if husbands are some sort of a commodity jab tak koi faida ho raha hai use karo then phek do. Marriage is over and above such difficult situations that why husband and wife are called life partners because they share everything in like be it happiness , sorrows , difficulties everything , it's a very sacred relationship and should not be ended if your partner has gone bankrupt. Husband or Wife is your family , would your leave your parents or siblings if they go bankrupt ? no na......just because they are your family. same way your spouse is your family.

You demean us:naraz:

It differs from girl to girl.
I would stick with my husband and help him till we get thru the test we are put to.
Cause after marriage its US and not I and YOU.

Nami:omg:

thats very well said. Its not same as b4 marriage.

Money isn't just important to women, it's important to men equally. When women say they need money it's not to hide under their pillows but to provide the basics for the family. She's responsible for a lot of things.. she's not hiding it from her husband and secretly buying bars of gold..

Most women will stick by their men at all times, even through phases of great difficulty.

lahori how did u come up with this crappy thought, what do u think women are. FYI women make money aswell :s!

I married him for better and worse... so if something disastrous does come I will do my best to support us around that time.

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family sticks 2gthr thru thick n thin

4evEr n alwAys..

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hain? stick with him of course. wouldnt think twice.

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If women are to leave husband on job loss, 50% of all marriages will break every year in US/Canada

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years ago, someone in our community married a man who she then asked for 50,000POUNDSSSSS haqq meher, he couldnt give it, she divorced him after a while. !!!!

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What I ridiculous question. Its not like wearing clothes. You wear one day and throw the next.

You can't just dump/divorce people as they get jobless. And hunt for new people. And continue with this life long cycle of dumping and hunting.

I baffles me is that what in the world were you thinking when you wrote the opening post!