Supposed you are married for 2 years and your husband always runs and tell his mother every single thing that you guys fight about. Does she have any right to know any of this?
Shouldn’t the husband be protecting his wife and not saying anything at all.
Please keep in mind that the MIL (mother in law) is so nosey that she has to know about every single thing including when was the last time you did it.
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I think guy is just afraid of loosing his diapers. Only a mother can tell that how he can be more comfortable without it 
Jokes apart. I think guy is insecure. Not trusting his wife completely, thats why he is sharing every thing with mom. May be when relationship will grow, the level of communication and trust will grow too and it will get better.
The wife should try to talk to husband more and increase verbal communication like a good friend.
Baaki Allah maalik ha 
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That guy iz totally a mama's boy n iz a big loozer in my opinion...talking to ur mother n spending tym wid her is a different thing but disclosing wive's personal matters iz not acceptable at all..yeah i agree try n act lyk a friend to ur husband n make him belive that u trust him alot may be this way his guilt wont allow him to continue...may be u can make up a story about a frend of urz whose husband used to do the same thing n ask him his opinion about this issue...n 1 more thing my friend rather than pointing out his mistakes just try to figure out whether or not ur rong sumwere...may be ur purely innocent but its gud to just brainstorm n think tht y does this situation comes where ur husband needs his mother to talk n not u???
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atleast i wont do that per pehle shaadi to ho.
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LostConfused..lets just suppose if you were this mom(mother in law) wouldn't you like to know how your son is doing or what he is going through?
i dont think its the mother thts at fault or the son..the person whoz at fault is pati dev.
oh man, i think its REALLY annoying if a guy was to go and tell everything to his mom…i mean a mama’s boy is good to some extent but when he starts airing your dirty laundry, that isnt working for me
I am not married, but I have a fiance and if he was to go tell everyhting to his mom, I would basically have to kick his ass 
Supposed you are married for 2 years and your husband always runs and tell his mother every single thing that you guys fight about. Does she have any right to know any of this? Shouldn't the husband be protecting his wife and not saying anything at all. Please keep in mind that the MIL (mother in law) is so nosey that she has to know about every single thing including when was the last time you did it.
i had the same problem. my MIL is so influential and everytime we had a fight she had to knew it and she would pretend to be on my side in front of me and than backstab me in front of my husband me.
than before i sharing anything with my husband, i used to ask him if his mum has to know or not.
now things are better.
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The husband shouldn't have gotten married in the first place, he should go and hide in his mother's palloo for ever. What happens between a husband and wife should stay between them. It's no one else's business. Typical mama's boy, can't $hit and wipe his a$$ but wants to get married, jackass.
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I hate such ppl honestly. If it happens to me then I would directly show my expressions to my hubby, I would not hide my expressions, if I dislike something then he should know.
Supposed you are married for 2 years and your husband always runs and tell his mother every single thing that you guys fight about. Does she have any right to know any of this? Shouldn't the husband be protecting his wife and not saying anything at all. Please keep in mind that the MIL (mother in law) is so nosey that she has to know about every single thing including when was the last time you did it.
I see some exaggeration here, no son in his right mind will share his bedroom adventures with his mother. This exaggeration is a proof that you do not like the bond this mother and son have. This bond between mother and son is created by nature , nothing you do will break it , ever. You should work on developing similar bond with your mother in law, she seems to be very loving and caring mother , if she cares so much about her son , she would surely care about anything related to him , like his wife. All you have to do is start copying your husband and start communicating and bonding with your mother in law and you will live happily ever after.
The husband shouldn't have gotten married in the first place, he should go and hide in his mother's palloo for ever. What happens between a husband and wife should stay between them. It's no one else's business. Typical mama's boy, can't $hit and wipe his a$$ but wants to get married, jackass.
hehe. But I totally agree. Guys like this shouldn't get married. (Unless he was forced to )
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i hate mama's boys..urgh...i understand ur mother is ur mother..heck wives have mothers too...but lady (MIL)....u can cut the umbilical cord......grrrr
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Mummy's boy who can't face up to his own problems is my take!
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May I ask how old the husband and wife are?
They need to sit down with eachother and have a frank discussion without getting emotional / angry / hysterical.
Wife needs to explain to the husband why she feels its wrong for him to go to mother and tell her about everything.
Husband needs to tell wife WHY he has the need to tell mother about everything. And WIFE needs to LISTEN.
Husband needs to understand he gotta confide in wife, and wife maybe to start with should keep her objections to herself until husband feels he can openly say anything to her.
Communication and trust issues?
Also, find a good book on Islamic guidance for families / married couples and show him various extracts that would help your case.
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So what if it’s the daughter goign to her parents? 
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^ That is just as bad. Although living with the MIL probably makes the mama's boy worse. My mother gave me a great bit of advice when I married.
Don't share your disagreements unless it is a situation that you are incapable of handling on your own or it becomes physical. Even if you are wrong, you are still their daughter/son, and they have a soft spot for you. Your parents will always remember that your husband/wife swore at you/called you names/thinks you are a fat cow, called you impotent, etc. long after you have moved on, and they will not be able to completely forgive him/her.
mama's boy?
I think if there is tension between you and your partner - then you will feel that he goes and says everything to his mom... if you have comfortable relationship with your partner and his mom - then even you will be open and talk freely -
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Now dont get me wrong, the MIL is a nice woman but very challak....she is always looking out for her self and her daughters. She just likes to be in control and cant stand it that she doesnt know every little detail about her son and his wife.
I guess the best I can do is pray to Allah and ask him to make things easier for us.
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I am in my mid 20's and hubby just turned 30