Re: what would you do?
No one can follow the Prophet :saw:'s example and he didn’t always have stale bread and meat…
Bibi Khadija 
was a well off ‘career’ woman with a thriving business of her own, so I doubt she’d offer stale bread and meat…
And today, in an age when things have become so easy to cook and acquire, what kind of a woman is going to cook stale bread for her husband?
You have a little more maturity to reach before you come up with examples that complement your arguments…