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minah u got me all wrong....
i did not even talk about the guy who kissed or the girl who was kissed....
i was talking about the man whose girl was kissed....
if u knew urdu u wud know that i was talking about the word "ghayrat", which as popularly known has no translation in english....
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If she had been my girlfriend I would have killed him.
Ghayrat is innate in everyone but in western people it becomes watered down due to society's influence.
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I ask the question again.
What legal course of action should the guy have taken?
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mad_scientist - there is no legal course of action, none. Nothing happened and there is no way to prove anything did. The girl was quiet. Now if it was the night of the incident, the girl could have pressed charges but not 2 weeks after the fact.
There is nothing wrong legally.
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minah, I think Maniac's thread was about what the guy should have done, not the girl. I still maintain that without ending up in a court facing assault charges or worse, there was no option available to the guy other than sending an angry message and terminating the friendship.
No woman is ever worth prison. A woman can be replaced - one's liberty cannot. Plus, in jail, if you drop your soap at the wrong time you can end up becoming another man's woman....
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Mad - I know that, if you read from the beginning you'll see what I answered, I did say the guy acted appropriately.
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I know 
I was addressing some of the guys here who propose breaking the law is the only “right” thing to do.
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Oh for the love of God why are you people getting into races and property. Arghh.
Maniac – Its very simple. You are the guys friend, so you have every right to voice your opinion about the whole situation. You can also give your friend advice - but the final decision rests with your friend. As far as the kissing, how can a guy just kiss a girl full on the mouth - and she not do anything if she was against it. What I mean is, she could easily have pushed him away,slapped him - done something.Did she do anything or er just let it happen? If esp it was a public place, why did she let him even touch her? I find it a bit odd.
Anyway as for the friend of yours - let him deal with the situation in his own way . However, let him know it wont kill him to go and have a face to face talk with the other guy. Dont get violent, since it will not solve anything, and could get your friends into further trouble. Plus they can report it to the police, I mean it was assault.
As for the whole is the gf the property of the guy . No. But if I was assaulted and he just wrote emails to the other guy, I would slap him to some sense. If he is her bf, he should make sure he does something when she is kissed by some moron against her will. Assuming she isnt/wasnt able to herself.. 