Re: WHAT WOULD YOU DO?! Note: THIS THREAD FOR GUYS ONLY!
Who says anyone is lecturing or scolding?
If you don't sit down and talk to the guy about the problem, then you're accused of being a typical desi woman, not communicating well, causing trouble, waiting till the end when you can't take it anymore and then having an argument which could have been avoided etc.
If you sit down and talk to the guy about the problem, then you're accused of scolding and giving a lecture.
Please. This female you speak of in the other thread gave an example from her own life, and you assumed a tone that she did not even speak of or describe. She said she sat him down and had a discussion with him. You assume you know what tone she's using as if you're there.
Jeez, people. Come up with better debate topics, really.