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*Originally posted by mAd_ScIeNtIsT: *
For the girls who'd say they'd hit back if a guy hits them... what benefit do they think they'd get from that, do they seriously think that they could win a fight against a guy who's stronger than them? Wouldn't fighting back against a man who's angry enough to have gone over the edge just make things worse for you, when he he counter-attacks you? Or do you expect him to be cowed after your first attempt to hit him?
The assumption that I'm making is that I could come out on top if my wife got violent by using greater strength to hold both her arms or hands (stopping her from punching/slapping/pinching me), whilst turning my body to the side to stop her from kicking my important bits. I'm assuming that I'd be able to hold her off in this way long enough to talk her into calming down.
I guess the point that I'm trying to make is that in most cases, the husband would be capable of overpowering the wife and neutralising her attacks with his own strength - for the wife to try to fight back in such a case would make things far worse for her.
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damn
i hate it when someone takes the realistic approach.
but its true, no matter what (unless u have mega big muscles and equipped with ablackbelt in akaido theres no way a woman can take on a guy)
what would i do if godforbid i was in that position? like i said if they hit me with the intent to hurt ide leave, and when i know theyre feeling guilty for what they did ide rub more salt into the wound than they could ever take
depends on how they'de react after that ispose as to what ide do next
Spouse beating is sadly very very common in Pakistani culture, in all social classes and regions. It seems like people, before marriage, say they are going to do this and that if their spouse hit them but most of them, after marriage, just tend to live with it...hmmm
Well, the first time. I won't say anything I will walk out right there. but I will make sure through actions so that he knows how much he has hurt me, I will not talk to him for a while. Until he realizez and apologizes for his action.
And if again he hits me, I surely won't come back into his life until he realisez his mistakes and comes out of his jahaliyat