Everyone lies. Some to hide the weakness, some to avoid conflicts, some because they are sick minded and lie about everything.
Lets assume that lying becomes a major crime from tomorrow. Even a small lie like telling the telemarketer that you are not the person of the house (come on, we all do that) can put you behind the bar for 1 year. What would you change in your personality/lifestyle?
Is there any bad habit that you will quit?
I for one will stop caring about people’s feeling and tell them how it is, cause many times I twist that fact just so they dont feel bad about certain things.
^^ I too could do the same .. I am very sensative person .. i most of the time put ppl ahead of me and their needs just so they can be happy ...but what i could change is to tell em to shuv it where the dunt shine and for once do your own thinking and do your own chores and stop being lazy ..
and the other think i could change is .. i dunt usually eat icecream .. when my brothers and sisters offer me ..so what i could change is start eating ice cream ..and explore all teh flavours and brands of ice cream :D
I am the same toooooooooooo always tell white lies to keep ppl happy…specially when they ask me, “Am i that fat?” Why do they have to ask me that question???
And when ever some1 offers to share what they are eating…I always say “No Thankyou” even when I want to eat it…So I guess I’ll jst eat too much.
I for one will stop caring about people's feeling and tell them how it is, cause many times I twist that fact just so they dont feel bad about certain things.
Well why do you have to wait for it to be a crime to stop lying?
Maybe sometimes a person can see right through the lie but still appreciate it....Idk.
If I stopped lying I'd have fights with everyone and be left with no friends.
although I believe we should not lie just because we care about people (that simply mean we dont care about Allah) but as TLK, I also do this some time but not unless someone ask me to.
Like if we are invited at dinner I dont start praising the food if its not good by myself. Haan ager maizbaan pochey tu I just say "yeah mazey ka hai" .... I guess I have to change all these habits to stay out of jail :)
:nono: is she is ur frnd u hv to tell her ki she is overweight…
i tell my frnds as sooon as i se a weight increase ki tumhara weight baraha hai..do somethign abt it..even when i notice ki they arent taking care of their skin i tel them…and they tell me too for everything..thts wht frnds r for
Like if we are invited at dinner I dont start praising the food if its not good by myself. Haan ager maizbaan pochey tu I just say "yeah mazey ka hai" .... I guess I have to change all these habits to stay out of jail :)
Its a good example but I guess there also should be a difference between telling the truth and 'hum to maasoom dil hain, jo dil main ho wohi zuban pe' attitude. Point is, telling lie should not be mixed with good people skills. Latter is highly encouraged even in Islam.
She knows she is over weight!!! But she still keeps asking me…she doesn’t ask me if she is fat…she asks me if she THAT fat!!! I don’t like the “THAT” word in the sentence!!!
Then she will eat all the junk food…and then complain so I ask her what she is complaining about coz no body stuffed the food down her throat!!!
always tell white lies to keep ppl happy…specially when they ask me, “Am i that fat?” 
Why do they have to ask me that question???
TLK uncle serious sawaal poocha tha 
mere aaliyah bhai need not ask anyone:hoonh: